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How many Hats are you Wearing? Let the Magic of the Numbers help you work it all out! |
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How many hats do you wear? Do you know your true purpose in life and do you understand just the right hat that suits your personality? With the many hats I have worn over the years, I don't believe I ever really knew who I was or where I was going. I was a good mother, good sister, friend, wife, auntie, daughter-in-law, employee, employer, author, private investigator, numerologist and naming analyst, adoption mediator, mentor and whatever else I needed to be at the time. My needs were always at the bottom of the pile, but I was never aware of this until much later in life. I lived my life thinking I had to do everything that was expected of me, simply because that's what you did! I ended up confused and angry, resentful and remorseful. I asked many questions about my life but never came up with any answers until one day I woke up in a hospital bed after suffering a severe nervous breakdown. This was now my time for a 'reality-check'. My inner voice began saying when is it time for me? I don't think I had lost sight of my vision, I simply didn't believe I had given myself time to create my own vision as I was too busy organising everyone else's. Being the 'good at everything' person, I lived my life filled with expectations from others; never complaining until one day the light came on in my thirties. I knew that I had to step back and take a reality check to see what it was I wanted, who I was, and where I was going to go in the second part of my life. I experienced many physical illnesses brought on by stress and past expectations and knew that if I was going to live to my nineties, I had to get off the roller coaster and change my thought process. One thing I did know was that I didn't have my own identity. I knew what was expected of me from everyone else, but who I was, was a fog. Wearing so many hats and taking on so many 'roles' in my life changed my identity and blurred just who I was and what my purpose in life really was. The problem for me lay in knowing when to include 'me' in the plan and how to back away from being the full-time 'mother' when my children became independent. What I do today is assist clients to re-write their own story and learn how to dance to their own music, making it the reality it was at five, ten or twenty years of age, before they adorned their heads with all of the hats. Men and women are affected personally and professionally by the 'many hats' they wear therefore losing their true identity when living life to somebody else's rules. If you wear a 'business' hat, ask yourself if you have the best business name, best personal name to give you every advantage, both financially and personally. It's all a matter of being in the right place at the right time. If you are discontented about your future, it may be a simple task of changing your name or business name. The following information gives you an insight of who you really are as an adult and is obtained by simply adding the digits of your birth date until you reach a single number. That outlines your Life Lessons and gives you an insight into your identity and what you are here to achieve. Eg: 21st May 1960 =2+1+5 (May being the fifth month)+1+9+6+0 =24. Then add 2+4=6. This person is a 6 personality. Another example: 17th June 1988. 1+7+6+1+9+8+8=40. 4+0=4 1 ADULT: THE WINNERS & LEADERS Independent, active, courageous, original and ambitious. This number is the leader of the pack and likes to be free of all encumbrances so that their independence will can be expressed freely. They will always be called on for help and guidance as other people feel a sense of protection surrounding this person. They work best alone and are usually efficient and well organized. Often a good sports-person, a 1 always likes to be in first place. A loner, their independence sets them apart from the crowd and they must accept this as they do like to stand out and be different. A negative 1 will have an overpowering ego, which could result in an arrogant, selfish, uncaring person, so watch for that fault and always keep other people's feelings in mind. The 1 has the power of leadership; so don't abuse it as it is a real talent. They are here to carve a new life for themselves and will be extremely successful if their emotions and ego are well balanced. Often a 1 personality stays in a relationship for a long time, because they are afraid to be alone or afraid to be independent. Until complete balance is evident in their life they are unable to stand alone on their own two feet. Oddly, this number is often answerable to their partner, is pushed around, or gives in for the sake of peace. It may take thirty years for the 1 person to find a balance or direction in their life or to acquire enough confidence to speak up for themselves and to make a stand – not necessarily physically, but emotionally. They like to lead from the front and are suited to careers in management, sales, leadership etc. 2 ADULT: THE MEDIATORS & HEALERS A very persuasive person who has to learn to become the friendly social mixer, a person who will always play the supportive role to the leader as this is where they can be most beneficial. A 2 person gains great satisfaction from helping other people attain their goals and their role is behind the scenes (the power behind the throne, so to speak). They are very intuitive and considerate. This quality is most important in the business field where their talents will help those in power, because of their ability to analyse both sides of the situation. They will be extremely important in a group situation or in a partnership, as this is where they are able to put the talents of the mediator into action. They like to bring people together for a common cause as they are very considerate of other people's opinions. Many careers are open to the 2 person, such as medicine, music, finance, religion, analysis and research. A 2 person is a diplomat/peacemaker, but may find decisions difficult to make as they are always able to see both sides of an issue. Service is a 2 person's speciality, and sorting out problems in a diplomatic way. If negative, a 2 lacks self-confidence and is very indecisive. Over-sensitivity and depression will arise from negative thoughts. Home situations are important to the 2 person as they do not handle stress well and can't work in chaos or a negative atmosphere. 3 ADULT: THE ACTORS & CREATIVE PEOPLE This number belongs to a person who is artistic, imaginative, expressive, optimistic and happy. Their lesson in life is to be totally self-expressive and artistic. Whatever endeavours they undertake, it must be expressed in their own creative way. They represent beauty, harmony and love. A 3 person is well disciplined, authoritative and a free spirit. This number should be careful not to scatter their energies too widely, as they have to specialise in artistic, religious or inventive pursuits. A 3 will feel trapped if restricted as they dislike routine. They may not work as well in a partnership, as they would like to, because their best results come from working alone. The 3 is intelligent and belongs to the people. The most outgoing of all the numbers, they are often frustrated because of their unfulfilled talents. A charming and charismatic person, communication is vital to a 3, as is laughter. They dislike being isolated from people close to them, but work well under stress as they find stress mentally stimulating. This number belongs to the performing arts and is a person who loves life and loves to be the centre of attention. Fond of travel, they are very talented but must be specific in the challenges they accept in their careers. A 3 is a gambler at heart, not afraid to take risks in life. A negative 3 person goes after life in a big way, to the point of self-indulgence and extravagance and this may be their downfall. They can be lazy at times and insensitive to others' feelings. 4 ADULT: THE ORGANISORS & ADMINISTRATORS The 4 person is here to build a solid life for themselves and for those dependent on them. Trustworthy, practical, dignified and tenacious, they demand organization and a well ordered system of conduct and morals. Where the 3 is related to the things of the mind, the 4 is related to the physical. The 4 person often sees life and other things in black and white so administration and management suit the 4. They like their home to conform in the same manner as work. Disorganization creates disharmony in their life. All of their decisions are made with sound practical reasoning. Negative 4 people are stubborn, repressive and narrow-minded and can make life a drudgery with their sterile attitudes. They can also become very boring and fixed in their thinking. The 4 person is a very hard worker, who works all his or her life to build an empire and often collects a healthy superannuation. They enjoy hard work, especially physical work. The public service or armed forces are suitable areas of work for the 4 person as they need to work in secure environment. 5 ADULT: THE COMMUNICATORS FREEDOM LOVERS The 5 person must hold the reins of their life in their own hands, only then will they accomplish wonders. They cannot and will not be limited. They would make great Peace Corps volunteers as they love to travel and experience life in full. They definitely dislike monotony and love to read and study. Great communicators who draw many people to them because they can lighten others' lives. They shine when dealing with the public, but hard labour is not the forte of the 5, so they should use their minds and mental talents. They are here to promote change in themselves and in those they come in contact with. An explorer, researcher and investigator at heart. The 5 persons' travels expose them to varied experiences, which they then teach to others. Versatile, clever and adaptable, a 5 person can do anything they want, but dislike monotony and routine. As a constructive 5, they reach great heights and depths without harm. There is no limit to what they can do in a professional capacity. They have inexhaustible energy, possess a quick mind, are versatile, happy, sensuous, adventurous, progressive and free souls. A negative 5 person is aggressive, self-indulgent, inconsistent and irresponsible. Life for a 5 person should progress on the mental plane. If they are totally immersed in the physical, they could become involved with drugs, alcohol and sex, and become very irresponsible. 6 ADULT: THE HEALERS & TEACHERS Responsible, unselfish, conscientious, tolerant and humane. The main lesson for a 6 to learn is a sense of responsibility for family and community. As 6 is the love vibration, this person is here to help others and to correct injustices. They like to ease the burdens of those around them as they are very compassionate souls. They are among the people who like to serve, teach and comfort humanity. The nursing and healing fields suit the nature of the 6 person, the legal profession, the arts, interior decorating and hairdressing – all the fields of love and beauty. These people love their homes and families and often marry quite young. Peace and harmony are important to a 6. These people make excellent parents, as they offer unconditional love and protection. They usually have beautifully decorated homes, furnished by themselves. Because of their generosity, kindness and patience, they have many friends. A negative 6 can be stubborn and a slave to those around them, often burying themselves in the home to become a recluse. If denied the love they so badly need, they indulge in self-pity and become a pain in the neck for all those around them. They can be egotistic, domineering and self-righteous. A positive 6 can do tremendous good for the world by bringing their unique and harmonious qualities into the lives of many people, thus establishing themselves as a safe harbour in the cold hard storms of life. Right and wrong, cause and effect are forever alive in a 6 person's life as 6 is justice. They are very family and community conscious once they have balance in their lives. 7 ADULT: THE INVESTIGATORS & SPEAKERS Trustworthy, reserved, affectionate, analytical and dignified, a 7 person's sole purpose in this life is to use their mind and their words are words of wisdom. Very intuitive people, they are usually an enigma to others and even to themselves at times. They are readers, thinkers and meditators. The 7 person likes to delve into the occult and into metaphysics, they are also interested in religion and research and are often found in the healing fields. This number likes to be alone to spend time in the country or by the sea. A 7 is not particularly interested in the material world, as their needs go beyond that. Poetry and music stimulate their souls. People of this vibration are very spiritual, possessing great healing powers. In a past life they may have been involved with the priesthood. The positive 7 is very perceptive, cultured, compassionate and wise, whilst the negative 7 is gloomy, lonely and could become a hermit, disillusioned with the world and what it has to offer. Often talents deep within them lie dormant for half their lives, but they will eventually surface if given the chance. Personal experience is vital for the 7 person. Many times in their lives they will ignore advice or judgements made on them by the experts in order to find out for themselves. The motto of the 7 person is "I like to learn but I hate to be taught," There is tremendous rebellious streak in the 7 person if they are not treated with respect, but if they use these attributes positively the 7 person is capable of great things in life and were often adepts or masters in a past life. 8 ADULT: THE BANKERS & EXECUTIVES The 8 person is called 'the inheritor' because this number usually inherits money, power or position, and sometimes all three. They have idealistic, forceful minds and a tremendous vitality and sense of what the public needs and how to provide it. Therefore they make excellent executives, business people, teachers and researchers. They work hard and play hard because they enjoy strenuous activity. They have a great deal of personal charm and are attractive to both sexes. The 8 has many interests and could succeed in any number of professions. They are friendly, helpful and considerate to their peers. Emotional balance is important for them, plus they need stability to control their dynamic energy to achieve success. Travel is an outlet for their tremendous vitality because it satisfies their need for freedom and action. An 8 person may meet opposition during their lifetime, however they will be prepared. Inner strength, power and a healthy body gives them the tools to defend their position. Through dedication and consistent force they are eventually victorious. The negative 8 produces doubt, unreasonableness and unbending judgment, hence they become self-indulgent and undisciplined which brings on weakness, ill health, and many bitter emotional exchanges. However, with their vision and foresight they have the opportunities to become leaders who are able to satisfy mind, body, spirit and the universe. 9 ADULT: I'M EVERYBODY'S FRIEND, THE HUMANITARIANS Compassionate, generous, humanitarian, philosophical, idealistic and benevolent describe the 9. A lover of humanity, patient and kind. They need to show others the way in life by sharing those God-given talents. The marrying type, they are strong in love and compassion. Wealth is easily attained, from the choice of many professions such as education, medicine, writing and lecturing. Communications and the foreign service attract the 9. As they desire to live the ideal life, they often place great difficulties in their own path. The ideal life is very hard to attain therefore they have many hurdles to overcome. The higher a 9 evolves, the more difficult life becomes so they need to understand life and its philosophies to make life easier for them. They also need to learn to become more tolerant of others. A 9 is very psychic, intuitive, wise and perceptive and like to delve into the mysteries of life. They may be destined to be loners as their wisdom sets them apart from the crowd. This number is wisdom and responsibility in its positive aspects. A 9 should possess the qualities of all of the numbers making life one long lesson and series of accomplishments. They must learn that their lessons in life are to help as many people as possible. They are the teachers of the universe and have to live a totally unselfish life. Material security is not important to a 9 as they are usually too casual with money. They are deep thinkers and very analytical. A negative 9 is self-serving, selfish, quick-tempered and a formidable enemy. Other aspects of Numerology that can assist you on your path:
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